My mom won't let me go out
Posted 20 February 2006 - 07:38 PM
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It depends on your relationship with you mom. Do you talk alot? Is it OK if you otalk with her about it? because you really should. Tell her what you think and that you're not a child anymore.
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hope she will realised then
hmm... there is juz too many situation like this... hard to make ur mom mind change... if can also maybe will hurt ur mom..
Posted 21 February 2006 - 05:14 AM
yes I agree.
wow... nothing we can do i think.. wat u should do now is i think let ur mother know, if this continue, this will seriously inflict to ur psycology.
hope she will realised then
becuase I honestly think it is affecting you. plus all the social pressures that's out there. . .oh man must be tough. and you dont' even have your own keys. maybe ask your dad? try to print a pair of keys off your sisters or something. and sneak out become a bad girl. and say it'syour moms fault for not letting you go out in the 1st place, resulted in you doing all this. LoL :lol?:
this sounds like such a bad influence, but DO IT!
Edited by iCanFly, 21 February 2006 - 05:16 AM.
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Posted 21 February 2006 - 05:43 AM
You ARE a kid. letted? hahaha, grow up n take up some responsibilities, then maybe she'll let you go out.
when i was in middle school (im in high school now) my mom letted me go to my frens house, now i cant even go, when i ask why she jus says no and doesnt give me a reason...yesterday i ask if i can go shopping with my fren n before i was done askin she was already shaking her head signaling no...i feel trapped in the house becuz i can only go out with my family, which annoys me becuz if i can go out i need a family member there and its not fun becuz we cant mess around (joke about each other)...how can i make my mom let me go out? im not those irresponsible type of girls, i get good grades at school, i do my hw, i help her around the house, i do almost everything for her, but she wont let me go out!!
Posted 21 February 2006 - 07:12 AM
Posted 21 February 2006 - 07:34 AM
whenever i ask her why she jus say i dont want u goin out...but she let everyone else in my family go out when they were little and when she didnt let them they snuck out....i dont even have a pair of keys...my mom thinks im gonna lose it >=(
Try to build up her confident in you so that she trust you and would let you go out. A lot of the times parent disallow you going out its because they think you are not mature enough. If you could gain her trust, no doubt she would let you have some fun.
Posted 21 February 2006 - 02:07 PM
When you were young, she would let you go to your friends house. Because you were still young. So nothing is really gonna happen.
But now that your older, she's afraid that you will get to know "bad friends". And do bad stuff. It is because you're more mature, she's afraid that you will do stupid things.
Maybe that's the reason.
But ofcourse, it may be different for you.
Edited by SevenWind, 21 February 2006 - 02:08 PM.
Posted 21 February 2006 - 02:46 PM
Posted 21 February 2006 - 02:51 PM
well i am a male .. so i dont have that problem .. but thats the same isnt it .. whether its male or female ..
if ur parents dont let u go out .. its normally to make sure ur in good hands
Posted 21 February 2006 - 08:13 PM
Posted 21 February 2006 - 10:44 PM
So my advice to you is, study hard and apply to the university that is furthest from home, so then you can have all the time to go out whenever you want, just like me. I feel like I'm teaching you doing something bad, lol.
Posted 21 February 2006 - 11:28 PM
It may seem annoying but your parents are very protective over you cause they care for you and they don't want you to get influenced into drinking, smoking, sexual relationships at like 16 as these are immoral things in their own mind set even though theyre pretty normal actions int his day'n age.
Yeah so have these discussions ask her whats the ral reason
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Posted 23 February 2006 - 05:17 PM
Perhaps you can try gaining her trust first, and then have your own way after that. after all, you stil have a long way to go from here. When you are away for further studies or working, you have so much free time that sometimes you wish you are with your parents and they are guarding you as tight as possible!!
So all i can say is treasure this times being pampered and cared for, and in the meantime, gain some trust from her. You will soon be as free as a bird.
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